I had a conversation with one of the little hotties I work with who always kept saying she was stoopid and dumb. It took months of telling her that’s true. But before you get upset with me let me explain. I asked her how to build a kitchen cabinet. She had no clue. I then asked if she could change the brakes on her car, blank stare. Then I asked her about things she liked, was interested in and she talked for 10 minutes. I simply told her she was smart, she knew things she was interested in. If you don’t know something it doesn’t make you stoopid. Knowledge can be learned.